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Commentary on Sermon 80 of Nahjul Balaghah
The âDeficienciesâ in Women
By: Ayatullah al-Uzma Nasir Makarim Shirazi
The Sermon at a Glance
As it has been mentioned in the discussion concerning the transmission of this sermon (as seen below), Imam âAli (a.s.) delivered this sermon after The Battle of the Camel (Al-Jamal) which took place in Baŝrah (Iraq) in the year 656 ce/35 ah and the subsequent defeat of the army of âAâysha b. Abi Bakr.
In this sermon, he reproaches women, and of course the meaning of him âreproaching womenâ are only those types of women who had launched (such calculated) attacks - those who were responsible for instigating The Battle of the Camel. Imam âAli (a.s.) referred to such women as having a âdeficiencyâ and it was because of this shortcoming that they engaged in such detrimental activities. Therefore, he reprimanded them and warned the believers to steer clear of their inductions.
Oâ people! Women are âdeficientâ in faith, âdeficientâ in shares, and âdeficientâ in intelligence. In regards to the âdeficiencyâ in their faith, it is their abstention from prayers and fasting during their menstrual period. In regards to their âdeficiencyâ in their intelligence, it is because the evidence of two women is equal to that of one man.
As for the âdeficiencyâ of their shares, it is because of their share of inheritance being half that of men. So beware of the evils of women. Be on your guard even from those of them who are (reportedly) good. Do not obey them even in good things, so that they may not attract you to evils things.
The Transmission of this Sermon
It is documented that this sermon is a portion of a letter which Imam âAli (a.s.) wrote after âUmro âAs took over the reins of the rule of Egypt after the martyrdom of Muhammad b. Abi Bakr. In that letter, the Imam (a.s.) related the painful events which transpired after the passing away of the Noble Prophet (S). The Imam (a.s.) ordered that his letter be read publically so that the masses would know what transpired and so that the satanic whispers which were prevalent in the community at that time would not impact the people.
It is not improbable to believe that the Imam (a.s.) spoke the words in this sermon [which we will be reviewing] more than once - the first time being after The Battle of Jamal â the war in which âAâysha played the principle role as one of the leaders in that major act of sedition; and that he repeated his words in another lengthy letter which he wrote.
Ibn al-Jawzi has stated: The scholars of biography (sirah) have related that when âAli, peace be upon him, had concluded The Battle of Jamal, he ascended the pulpit in Baŝrah (Iraq) and delivered this sermon. In reality, his words point to the instigations for The Battle of Jamal and the misdeeds of âAâysha .1
As for those who have narrated this sermon before Sayyid al-Raďi the list includes Abu Talib al-Makki in his book, Quwwatul Qulub; the late Shaykh al-Kulayni in volume five of Furuâ al-Kafi; Ibrahim b. Hilal al-Thaqafi in his book al-Gharat; Ibne Qutyabah in his book al-Imamah wal Siyasah; and al-Tabari in his book al-Mustarshid (with some variations) â this list of references has been derived from Masadir Nahjul Balaghah, vol. 2, pg. 86.
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Amongst the commentators on the text of Nahjul Balaghah â specifically the contemporary writers â much has been said in regards to the explanation of this sermon, and it is for this reason that we begin with the following introduction to ensure that the discussions in regards to this sermon are made clear.
During the course of history, the character of the woman has gone through much discussion and many extreme things have been stated as pass judgement on women. Sometimes their status as a human being has been diminished, and at other times, their very nature of being considered a human being has been called into doubt!2
At other times they had been thought of as being nothing more than a mere slave; in other instances, they were considered as the superior sex and the concept of âfemale dominationâ of society was brought forth as the ideal notion! In regards to each of these views, it can be said that all of these extreme interpretations have had immense repercussions on one another.
In todayâs society, especially in the Western societies, or those who emulate âThe Westâ and claim to follow democracy, we see the same sorts of discussions in regards to women.
During election times, politicians realized that they needed to gain the vote of the women, as men and women tend to vote in similar patterns; in addition, the capitalist system heavily required that women enter the workplace - especially considering the fact that most often, women are paid less than men and are given less opportunities than men to excel in the work environment. As well, the entire system of marketing and advertising which makes up a large part of the political and economic propaganda also requires the use of women [to market and sell their products].
It is due to all of these reasons that in their speeches, various nations continuously âdefendâ womenâs rights and do their utmost to elevate the character of women; however in their practical actions, we donât see any attempt in sincerely and honestly working to elevate their honour and status; thus the women of today have been caught up in many levels of frustration and disappointment â the same things which they were also deprived of in the past.
This same thing can also be seen when you wade through the religious texts in which some groups maintained womenâs rights as merely slogans to promote and defended them due to some act of pretension; they interpreted the religious texts in such a way as to paint a picture that a majority of the women would relate to and would â albeit in a dishonest way â show the women as having some predisposition [which they do not possess].
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The sermon narrated above and other similar limited statements which are contained in Nahjul Balaghah have not remained un-touched from being discussed and commented upon.
Sometimes, the chain of narrators (sanad) has been called into question, and sometimes the explanation of the text has been discussed such that the smallest amount of filth of weakness can be attributed to women. Another one of the plots has been to go to an extreme (in discussing this sermon) such that some state that women in general are the complete totality of deficiencies and incompetency!
However, in the midst of this discussion, there are two things which we cannot deny â the first is that this sermon was delivered after The Battle of Jamal and we know that the person who was at the centre of that war was the wife of the Noble Prophet (S) - âAâysha who had been encouraged by two companions of the Prophet (S) - namely Talha and Zubayr and in an unprecedented move entered the battlefield, resulting in the spilling of the blood of many innocent and uninformed individuals. Some scholars state that the number of people killed in this one battle exceeded 17,000!
Indeed it is true that after the army of âAâysha , Talha and Zubayr lost the war, this wife of the Prophet expressed her remorse (at what she had done), and that the Commander of the Faithful âAl i (a.s.), simply due to the respect [which he had for] the Prophet (S) honourably returned her back to Madina, however the ill-effects which this war left on the Muslim society will remain forever in the annals of history.
The second point which must be mentioned is that in many of the verses of the Qurâan we see that humanity on a whole has been condemned â for example: Indeed man has been created covetous: anxious when an ill befalls him and grudging when good comes his way.3
In another place in the Qurâan we read: âŠIndeed he (the human being) is most unjust and senseless.4
In yet another place in the Qurâan we read that the human being is one whose rejection of the bounties of God is transparent and apparent for everyone to see: Man is indeed a manifest ingrate.5
In one more place, the human being has been considered as a creation that anytime a blessing reaches him, he goes into a state of rebellion: Indeed man becomes rebellious, when he considers himself without need.6
There are many more such verses as well in the Qurâan.
Without a doubt the human being is not, within his nature, to be a manifest ingrate, nor is he most unfair and senseless, nor is he rebellious. Rather, apparently what is meant here is that these verses are talking about human beings who have â willingly â not gone under the training and nurturing of the Divinely appointed leaders, and just like plants, allow themselves to grow on their own. They do not have a guide, nor do they have anyone to help them wake up from their spiritual slumber, and thus they are caught up in their own whims and desires.
It is for this reason that in the Qurâan there is praise for those people who possess God-consciousness and submit to the orders of Allah, and principally [the existence of] humanity themselves have been introduced as the ultimate purpose behind the creation of the universe: Certainly We have honoured the Children of Adam, and carried them over land and sea, and provided them with all the good things, and given them an advantage over many of those whom We have created with a complete preference.7
When we speak about the female gender as well, we see that the same rules apply (as mentioned above in these verses of the Qurâan).
Amongst women, there are those who are noble such that it is even difficult to find men who have reached their calibre; but the opposite of this is also true that there are many women who have gone astray and are the source of many of the societal evils.
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By keeping this introduction in mind, let us now begin the interpretation and clarification of the sermon mentioned (about the âdeficiencies in womenâ) and at the end of our discussion, we will bring up some final points in this regards.
Just as we noted above, the Imam (a.s.) delivered this sermon after The Battle of Jamal and it was meant to be a warning for all of the Muslims, so that they would not fall into such a painful predicament in the future.
The Imam (a.s.) started off by saying: Oâ people! Women are âdeficientâ in faith, âdeficientâ in shares, and âdeficientâ in intelligence.
He then went on to explain the reasons behind each of these three forms of âdeficiencyâ and states: As regards to the âdeficiencyâ in their faith, it is their abstention from prayers and fasting during their menstrual period. As regards to their âdeficiencyâ in their intelligence it is because the evidence of two women is equal to that of one man. As for the âdeficiencyâ of their shares it is because their share in inheritance is half of that of men.
There is no doubt that these three forms of âdeficiencyâ have their own understandings. If Allah has removed the responsibility of praying and fasting from women during their monthly menstruation period, then it is because during the time of their menstruation, they enter into an âalmost-illâ period in which they require rest and they are not in a position to engage in acts of worship.
If the testimony of two women is equivalent to one man than it is due to the fact that the sentiments and emotions of a woman often overpower them and they may give testimony in favour of one and to the determinant of another merely based on their emotions.
A womanâs portion of the inheritance is half of that of a man only in certain circumstances when children and wives are inheriting from the man; whereas in relation to inheriting from a father and mother â in many instances â the inheritance (of a man and woman) are the same and also in regards to the inheritance of brothers and sisters and their children â their inheritance is also similar. In order words: a woman â as a mother or sister â in many instances, takes an equal share of inheritance as a man.
Another reason why sometimes the man gets double the share of inheritance than the woman is due to the fact that the financial maintenance and all of the womanâs daily requirements are the responsibility of the men (in her life) and not only does the woman not have to spend her own money on the maintenance of her children, but in fact her husband must provide all of her requirements, even if a large amount of money comes to her by way of inheritance or anything else.
Therefore, all of these differences (between the genders) which Islam has brought have been carefully calculated (and there are logical reasons behind each one of them).
However one thing which we cannot deny is that in every case, a woman and man are not equal from all aspects and those who propagate the claim of them being âcompletely equalâ or have, as recently spoken about the woman being greater than a man merely proclaim this belief of theirs - however their actions are completely different!
We find no President of a country who can state that men and women are completely equal and who would, when appointing his cabinet ministers for the various departments, appoint an equal amount of women and men in his government [simply based on their gender]; and also the Secretary General of an organization, when he is appointing individuals to various posts in the committees, normally do not appoint people merely based on their gender and not look to ensure that they have an equal amount of either gender on the cabinet â this does not occur even in the âWestern worldâ, nor in the secular countries!
That which is closer to the truth and is far removed from all forms of ostentation is that: With all of the abilities that God has given to the two genders, we can easily understand and deal amongst them with justice so that each of these two are able to blossom within their own God-given abilities and with their created talents and powers which are within them, that they themselves and their society on a whole can make use of them. This is the best way that we can describe the issue, and as we continue on and go into our discussion on the finer points, God willing, we will offer a more-in-depth commentary on this issue.
At the end of the sermon, the Imam (a.s.) brings a short conclusion and states that: So beware of the evils of women. Be on your guard even from those of them who are (reportedly) good.
He concludes his sermon and says: Do not obey them even in good things so that they may not attract you to the evil things.
It is clear that the meaning of ânot obeying women even in good thingsâ does not mean that if they encourage towards good actions such as the prayers #349;alat), fasting, justice and goodness that we are to disobey them; rather it means that we must not unconditionally follow them. In other words, âgoodnessâ must be performed because it is good, and not because oneâs spouse has commanded it to be done, such that one becomes bold and they think that they now can order you to do bad things and that they will be obeyed.
Even though the wordings in Nahjul Balaghah in this section are not specifically directed to oneâs wife and all women in general have been included in the discussion, however it is clear that such an issue would usually occur more so within the context of a husband and wife relationship.
Therefore, what has been mentioned in this sermon - and also keeping in mind the verses of the Qurâan which speak on the obligation to enjoin the good and forbid the evil, and the necessity to accept that from others - applies to men and women alike, and the meaning of this sermon is not that one needs to ignore the performance of good deeds! Rather, the meaning of this sermon is that oneâs actions must not be done through unconditional obedience (of another person).
In any case, those women with true faith, awareness, intellect and dedication (to the faith of Islam) are definitely exempt from this ruling; those women whose pleasure lies in Allahâs pleasure; whose anger is the anger of Allah - such as Fatima al-Zahra (a.s.) - whose commands were nothing other than advising towards goodness and righteousness, and who constantly sought to attain the pleasure and closeness of the Creator.
This point is also clear that when it is said: âbe careful of even the good ones amongst themâ that âgoodâ is a relative term and is not absolute, as one should not only not be on the lookout for those who possess âabsolute goodnessâ, rather one must accept such a personâs advice and consider their council as being worth something. It is for this reason that in the history of Islam, we see men who gave great importance to the suggestions of their wives.
In some of the verses of the Qurâan we see that asking women for advice has actually been considered as a noble trait. For example in regards to weaning a child off of his motherâs milk, we read the following in Suratul Baqarah: Mothers shall suckle their children for two full years â that for such as desire to complete the suckling ⊠And if the couple desire to wean, with mutual consent and consultation, there will be no sin upon themâŠ8
1. Note that what Ibn al-Jawzi has stated and that which Sayyid al-Raďi have stated in regards to the delivery of this sermon differ from one another.
2. Refer to the following passes of the Old and New Testament (Bible) - [added by the translator]: Burn The Daughter: âAnd the daughter of any priest, if she profane herself by playing the whore, she profaneth her father: she shall be burnt with fire.â (Leviticus 21:9)
Cut Off Her Hand: âWhen men strive together one with another and the wife of the one draweth near for to deliver her husband out of the hand of him that smiteth him, and putteth forth her hand, and taketh him by the secrets: then thou shalt cut off her hand, thine eye shall not pity her.â (Deuteronomy 25:11-12)
Female Births Get Penalty: âSpeak unto the children of Israel, saying, If a woman have conceived seed, and born a man child: then she shall be unclean seven days; according to the days of the separation for her infirmity shall she be unclean.â (Leviticus 12:2) ⊠âBut if she bear a maid (female) child, then she shall be unclean two weeks, as in her separation: and she shall continue in the blood of her purifying threescore and six days.â (Leviticus 12:5)
Female Inferiority: âBut I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.â (I Corinthians 11:3)
Female Inferiority: âFor the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.â (I Corinthians 11:8-9)
Jesus Will Kill Children: âBehold, I will cast her into a bed, and they that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds. And I will kill her children with death; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.â (Revelation 2:22-23)
Kill The Witches: âThou shalt not suffer a witch to live. Whoever lieth with a beast shall surely be put to death. He that sacrificeth unto any god, save to the LORD only, he shall be utterly destroyed.â (Exodus 22:18-20)
Rape My Daughter: âBehold, here is my daughter a maiden, and his concubine; them I will bring out now, and humble ye them, and do with them what seemeth good unto you: but unto this man do not so vile a thing. But the men would not hearken to him: so the man took his concubine, and brought her forth unto them; and they knew her, and abused her all the night until the morning: and when the day began to spring, they let her go.â (Judges 19:24-25)
Silence The Woman: âLet the women learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.â (I Timothy 2:11-14)
Stone The Woman: âIf a man be found lying with a woman married to a husband, and a man find her in the city, and lie with her;â (Deuteronomy 22:22)
Stone The Woman: âThen ye shall bring them both out unto the gate of that city, and ye shall stone them with stones that they die; the damsel, because she cried not, being in the city; and the man, because he hath humbled his neighbourâs wife: so thou shalt put away evil from among you.â (Deuteronomy 22:24)
Wives, Submit Yourselves: âWives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.â (Ephesians 5:22-24)
Women Shall Not Speak: âLet your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience, as also saith the law. And if they will learn anything, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.â (I Corinthians 14:34-35)
Womenâs Sorrow: âUnto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.â (Genesis 3:16)
Rip Up Pregnant Women: âSamaria shall become desolate; for she hath rebelled against her God: they shall fall by the sword: their infants shall be dashed in pieces, and their women with child shall be ripped up.â (Hosea 13:16)
The Wicked Woman - Part 1: âGive me any plague, but the plague of the heart: and any wickedness, but the wickedness of a woman.â (Eccles. 25:13)
The Wicked Woman - Part 2: âOf the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die.â (Eccles. 25:22)
The Wicked Woman - Part 3: âIf she go not as thou wouldest have her, cut her off from thy flesh, and give her a bill of divorce, and let her go.â (Eccles. 25: 26)
The Wicked Woman - Part 4: âThe whoredom of a woman may be known in her haughty looks and eyelids. If thy daughter be shameless, keep her in straitly, lest she abuse herself through overmuch liberty.â (Eccles. 26:9-10)
The Wicked Woman - Part 5: âA silent and loving woman is a gift of the Lord: and there is nothing so much worth as a mind well instructed. A shamefaced and faithful woman is a double grace, and her continent mind cannot be valued.â (Eccles. 26:14-15)
The Wicked Woman - Part 6: âA shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord.â (Eccles.26:25)
The Wicked Woman - Part 7: âFor from garments cometh a moth, and from women wickedness. Better is the churlishness of a man than a courteous woman, a woman, I say, which bringeth shame and reproach.â (Eccles. 42:13-14)
3. Al-Qurâan, Suratul Maâarij (75), 19-21
4. Al-Qurâan, Suratul Ahzab (33), 72
5. Al-Qurâan, Suratul Zukhruf (43), 15
6. Al-Qurâan, Suratul âAlaq (96), 6-7
7. Al-Qurâan, Suratul Israâ (17), 70
8. Al-Qurâan, Suratul Baqarah (2), verse 233
Important Points
1. Similarities And Differences Between Men And Women
Many researchers and experts have entered into discussions on the topic that: from the point of view of their physiology and also their privileges, are men and women identical or are there differences between the two genders?
In most cases, the belief that was espoused was that in their physiology, emotional level and intellectual capacity, differences exist between the genders, however they stated that these differences do not take away anything from the character of a woman, nor do they add anything to the character of a man. However undoubtedly, the differences which are present can lead to a differentiation in the responsibilities which exist in society between men and women.
From the societal point of view, many people believe that men have been created to be the leader, and this way of thinking led to an extreme ideology and another group rose up in opposition to them and believed that women were to be the leaders of society. Meanwhile, a third group came forth and rejected both ideologies and came with the notion of âhuman leadershipâ (not based on gender).
What we gleam from the Islamic sources and what logic and intellect dictate in this area of discussion is that the human being has three aspects to their character:
âą The humanistic and Divine nature;
âą The scientific and cultural nature;
âą The economic nature.
2. The Humanistic and Divine Nature
At the first level - which makes up the principle values of the human being, there is no difference between the man and woman and both are equal in the sight of Allah (S.w.T.) and both genders are able to traverse the path towards attaining closeness to Allah (S.w.T.) and continue on this path for perpetuity (until death). In other words, the way towards perfection has been kept open equally for both genders.
Therefore, the Qurâanic address in this area includes both men and women in an equal fashion and in one verse we read: Whoever acts righteously, [whether] male or female, should he be faithful, âWe shall revive him with a good life and pay them their reward by the best of what they used to do.1
In another place in the Qurâan we read: Indeed the muslim men and the muslim women, the faithful men and the faithful women, the obedient men and the obedient women, the truthful men and the truthful women, the patient men and the patient women, the humble men and the humble women, the charitable men and the charitable women, the men who fast and the women who fast, the men who guard their private parts and the women who guard, the men who remember God greatly and the women who remember [God greatly] âGod holds in store for them forgiveness and a great reward.2
In addition, this well-known verse of the Qurâan also classifies the spiritual proximity which one can attain to Allah (S.w.T.) as being accessible by anyone regardless of their gender â male or female: O mankind! Indeed We created you from a male and a female, and made you nations and tribes that you may identify with one another. Indeed the noblest of you in the sight of God is the most God-consciousness among you. Indeed God is All-knowing, All-aware.3
There are also other such verses in the Qurâan which we will not quote here for sake of brevity.
In the Islamic traditions (statements from Prophet Muhammad (S) and his 12 Successors (a.s.)) this reality is also clearly visible.
In a hadith which the late Shaykh al-Kulayni quotes in his book Al-Kafi, we read the following: The sister, by way of suckling with the same wet-nurse who also took care of and fed the Prophet Muhammad (S), came to the Prophet and when she entered into his room and saw him, she became extremely elated and spread her own coverlet on the ground and made him sit on it.
She then began to speak warm words with him and when she was about to leave the Prophet (S), her brother came (this sister and brother were two of the children of Halima Saâdiyah who was the suckling mother of the Prophet (S)), however the Prophet (S) did not treat his sister (by way of suckling) in the same way that he treated her brother (even though he treated them both with respect and love).
Some people asked the Prophet of Allah (S), âThe same level of respect which you displayed to your sister you did not extend to your brother (by way of suckling) â is it because he is a man?â The Prophet (S) replied: â[This was because] she is much nicer to her mother and father than he (the brother) is.â4
It is interesting to note that the companions felt that how you treat a person should be based on their gender, however not only did the Prophet (S) not consider that as being a means of distinction (in society), rather he placed a woman - his sister, due to her upholding the Divine values and morals, at a loftier position.
The story of Nusaybah and the bravery which she displayed during the Battle of Uhud is yet another incident that we should ponder upon. During this intense battle, she provided water to the troops with no regard for the dangers involved in what she was doing and even when the enemy forces began to attack her, she defended herself from all angles!
When she finally escaped the battlefield, she had thirteen injuries on her body, and she eventually became a martyr in an area known as Yamama while she was fighting against Musaylama, and this is a well-known historical event.
The Prophet (S) said the following about her and her bravery in the Battle of Uhud: Today, the rank and status of Nusaybah bint Kaâb is better than so and so (some of the people who were engaged in fighting in the Battle of Uhud).5
In addition, the story of Shatitah Nishaburi is also one which is well known. During her time, an individual named Muhammad b. âAli al- Nishaburi had collected a large amount of wealth and gifts for Imam Musa b. Jaâfar (a.s.) from the Shiâa of his region. He then proceeded his journey to where the Imam was living and presented all of the cash and gifts to the Imam, after giving the things, the Imam (a.s.) said to him: From amongst the 30,000 dinar and 50,000 dirham and the pieces of cloth that you have brought me, there is only one dirham and one piece of cloth which belongs to that faithful lady named Shatitah which I accept. You may return everything else back to its owners!6
This historical event also clearly shows us that the value of a person is not based on whether they are male or female; in fact we see that sometimes, women end up with an even greater status than men!
3. Mental and Cultural Similarities and Differences
In this section as well, there are no differences between men and women â meaning that the ways which one can attain knowledge are open to both genders equally - just as the famous Prophetic sentence states: Seeking knowledge is compulsory upon every Muslim man and Muslim woman.7
This sentence proves our statement (even if the word ĂĂĄĂŁĂĂĄĂŁĂ â female Muslim) is not a part of the original saying of the Prophet (S) - however what is established is that this word (ĂĂĄĂŁĂĂĄĂŁ â Muslim) refers to the âspeciesâ - regardless of gender just as can be seen in other traditions.
Therefore, there are no limitations from Islam (in this regards) and no limitations can be imposed upon women at any stage of their quest for knowledge and they too are able to traverse the road towards attaining perfection and completion in knowledge. In the history of Islam as well we see some great women personalities and some of these women have been mentioned in the books of hadith and have been introduced as women who have narrated traditions (from the Prophet (S) and the Infallible Imams (a.s.)).
4. Economic Similarities and Differences
In addition to the points mentioned above when we examine this third level, we see no difference between women and men â women too are permitted to possess their own wealth, just as men are.
Within the religion of Islam, women have been given true economic freedom which is in complete contrast to what we see in some âWestern nationsâ which until today, do not afford women unfettered economic freedom and do not allow women the independence to spend their wealth as they see fit, except with the permission of their husbands.
In Islam, a woman has complete over her wealth and is not required to have her husbandâs permission to spend it, and therefore can spend it in any legitimate (from the religious perspective) place, on anything, anyone or for anything!
However, if we put aside the slogans which are circulated [in terms of the economic status of the genders and look at this issue on a practical level], then we cannot deny the fact that in most instances, men are typically more active in the work place; and this could be due to some reasons: Men, generally speaking, have more strength and muscle which allows them to accomplish strenuous tasks, and it is for this reason that they have a more prominent role in the economic affairs of the society.
The challenges which women face during pregnancy, delivery and subsequently the nurturing of children (especially for those who breastfeed their babies â even though Islamically this period only lasts for two years which is the maximum that a woman can breastfeed her child) plays a big part in taking away many years from the woman [in which she could have been a productive member of the outside workforce].
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