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How to Cure Hypocrisy and Self-Admiration?
Source: Oddat al-Daee
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563. “Whoever performs prayer in order to see by men has become a polytheist.” * * *
“Say I am only a mortal like you, it is revealed to me that your god is one God, therefore whoever hopes to meet his Lord, he should do good deeds, and not join any one in the service of his Lord.” * * *
564. “I am the best partner and if anyone chooses a partner other than Me in his deed, I will not accept it and transfer it to My partner, for I will only accept those deeds which are devoted to Me.” * * *
565. “I am the Most rich partner. Therefore whoever does a deed and takes a partner for Me in that deed I free Myself from obligation and transfer it to My partner.” * * *
566. “Everything rightful has a truth in it and no man will reach the truth of devotion unless he does not wish to be praise for what he has done for the sake of God.” * * *
567. “O Abazar! No one will ever become a jurisprudent that too, a supreme one unless he will not fear people can change him.” * * *
“Then he should look at himself and consider it as the most humble one.” The consequences of Hypocrisy * * *
569. “Hypocrisy is a hidden polytheism.” * * *
570. “The most believed servants of God are the most pious ones who worship God in secret, those who, if their names are mentioned, no one knows them.” * * *
571. “A wise man is one who neither does anything good out of hypocrisy nor abandons it due to modesty.” * * *
“It is incumbent on you to hide your deed and Dua but I have to make it manifest.” * * *
“No man ever attains true devotion unless he does not love to be praised for a deed done for God.” * * *
“Say: I am only a mortal like you; it is revealed to me that your god is one God, therefore whoever hopes to meet his Lord, he should do good deeds, and not join any one in the service of his Lord.” * * *
“O You who reveal what is beautiful and conceal what is ugly.” * * *
572. “It is incumbent on you to hide your good deed but incumbent on Me to make it manifest.” * * *
“Say: In the grace of Allah and in His mercy -in that they should rejoice; it is better than that which they gather.” (Verse 58 of the Quranic Chapter, Yunus.) * * *
573. “God does not cover up anything for His servant which He does not cover up in the Hereafter.” The Root of and Motivation behind Hypocrisy * * *
574. “God forgives temptations which are in the heart of my Ummah as long as they do not speak of it or do it.” * * *
How to cure hypocrisy * * *
575. “Never do anything for which you have to apologize, for good deeds require no apology. Do not do in secret anything which if made open, you are ashamed of it. Also avoid deeds which if reminded, its doer denies it.” * * *
576. “The highest degree of faith is one which if a person attains, becomes successful and is delivered, that is, his secret deeds should be so worthy that he will not have fear when made public nor is afraid of their consequences in case they are in secret.” * * *
577. “Man should not do any deed the appearance of which is obedience to God but is meant to please people.” * * *
578. “God does not accept a deed in which there is an atom of hypocrisy.” * * *
579. “God says to these three people: You are lying, for you wished they would say he was “generous”, he was “brave” and “reciter” of the Holy Quran.” * * *
580. “The most horrible thing I fear about you is minor blasphemy.” * * *
“It is hypocrisy, for on the Day of Judgment when God gives His servants rewards for their deeds, will say: Go to those for the sake of whom you acted hypocritically in the world. Will they give any reward for your deeds?” * * *
581. “On the Day of Judgment, there is an order to take some people toward Fire. God will say to the master of Fire: O master! Say to the Fire: Do not burn their feet for they used to go to mosque with those feet. Say to the Fire: Do not burn their face, for they use to perform ablution. Say to the Fire: Do not burn their hands for they raised them towards Me for Dua. Say to the Fire: Do not burn their tongue, for they used to recite the Holy Quran. Here, the master of the Fire will say to them: O miserable ones! What were you doing in the world? they say: We were doing for others and not God. The master of the Fire will say: Receive your rewards from those for whom you did your deeds.” * * *
583. “Whoever seeks God’s praise instead of people’s praise, God Himself will protect him against people and fulfill his desires.” * * *
584. “Whoever rectifies his Hereafter affairs, God will rectify his worldly affairs and whoever rectifies what is between him and God, God will rectify what is between him and people.” * * *
“And Allah shall deliver those who guard (against evil) with their achievement” we read: * * *
585. “In the fear and horror of the Day of Judgment, a righteous deed will say to its doer, mount me for I was mounting you in the world for a long time. Here the doer of a righteous deed mounts it and the righteous deed too takes him through the hardships of the Day of Judgment.” * * *
586. “A righteous deed paves the way for its doer in the same way that a man sends his servant ahead of himself to prepare everything for him.” * * *
“....and whoever does good, they prepared (good) for their own souls.” * * *
587. “Whoever devotes himself solely to God for forty days, fountains of wisdom shall pour forth from his heart upon his tongue.” * * *
588. “There is no believer unless God has made out of his faith a kind of friendship and company by which he will keep calm in a way that even if he is on the peak of a mountain, he will not have any fear.” * * *
589. “Associate with people so as to test them and when you have tested them, you will find out that they are not your friends.” * * *
590. “The more you understand people, the more you will fear them.” * * *
591. “Should you wish to meet Me in paradise on the Day of Judgment, you must be stranger, lonely, melancholic, fear-stricken as a lonely bird flying over emply lands and eating fruits from the top of trees and when night falls, takes abode in its nest, for this bird is familiar only with Me and fears people.” * * *
592. “Whoever sends up his devoted prayer, God will send him His best means.” * * *
593. “A man will never become a truly devoted servant of God unless he gives up hope in any one but God. In this case, God will say: This devotion is only for Me, hence, He will accept it due to His generosity and kindness.” * * *
594. “God has not given His servant a greater blessing than when there is no one but God in his heart.” * * *
595. “O Hesham! Forbearing loneliness is a sign of wisdom. Whoever appreciated divine knowledge, he will keep aloof from the worldly people and tends towards what is with God. In fear, such a person is familiar with God and in loneliness, God is his company and in destitution, God will make him rich and will make him mighty in helplessness. O Hesham! A little action with knowledge is acceptable whereas a lot of actions with ignorance is rejected.” * * *
596. “The best prayer is devotion.” * * *
597. “If all people go to one side, I will go towards person who is only the servant of God out of devotion.” * * *
598. “If the whole world turns into a morsel and I will give that morsel to a devoted servant of God, I have neglected his right and if I stop an unbeliever from dying hungry and thirsty and then give him a drop of water I have been extravagant.” * * *
599. “When you go without food, put oil on your head and olive oil on your lips so people will not know you go without food. When your give money, let not your right hand see what your left hand does. When you make your prayer, go into your private room and shut the door, for the same God who divides sustenance, divides praise.” * * *
600. “On a day when there is no shade but His, God will put three groups under the shade of His Throne: Two persons who make friend for the consent of God and are separated for the same purpose. A person who gives money with his right hand while hiding it from his left hand and a man whom a beautiful woman calls to herself but he will say to her: I fear God, the Lord of the two worlds.” * * *
601. “My father has narrated from Amiralmomenin (AS) as saying to Kumeil Ibne Ziad Nakhaee: Give away but remain unknown. Hide your good deeds so they are not remembered. Learn knowledge and practice what you have learnt. Keep quiet so as to remain sound. Make the good people happy and the wrongdoers angry. When God made His religion known to you, it is immaterial whether people are not known to you or you are not known to them.” * * *
602. “A good deed done in secret is seventy times better than one which is done openly.” * * *
603. “Whoever does a good deed in secret, it is recorded in the book of his deeds as a secret deed. If he speaks about it to others, the word “secret” is erased and is recorded as open deed. If he speaks about it for the second time, it is erased and hypocrisy is recorded instead.” * * *
604. “Three things ruin human beings: The stinginess which is obeyed, the desire which is followed and man’s self-admiration which will ruin good deeds and incure God’s wrath.” * * *
605. “Were a believer’s wrongdoing not better than his self-admiration, God would never make him free in committing wrongdoing.” * * *
606. “An act of disobedience making you worried is better than a good deed which makes you proud.” * * *
607. “Nothing is better than humbleness and no loneliness is more horrible than self-admiration.” * * *
608. “God sent a revelation to prophet David saying: O Dawood! Give good tidings to wrongdoers and admonish the pious. David said: How shall I give good tidings to the wrongdoers and admonish the pious? God said: Give good tidings to the wrongdoers that I will accept repentance and forgive their sins but admonish the pious lest they will become proud of their deeds for never were a man proud of his good deeds unless he was ruined.” * * *
“Never did a man make an end account of his good deeds unless he was obliterated.” * * *
609. “I know the interests of My servants better than themselves, for sometimes one of My believing servants does his best to perform his prayer, he wakes up from his pleasant sleep over him for a couple of nights. This is due to My favor with him so as to make him steadfast. Hence, he keeps on sleeping and when he wakes up, he will get angry with himself. If I leave him free in performing prayer, he would be overwhelmed by self-admiration which would ruin him, for he would feel superior to servants and had the impression that he had not failed in worshipping Me. To sum it up he would keep aloof from Me whereas in his opinion, he was near to Me.” * * *
610. “God says: Some of My believing servants invoke the grace of some prayers but I take away the grace of the deed lest they will become proud of it.” * * *
611. “O assembly of disciples! There are many lamps which are extinguished by winds and many pious me who are obliterated by self-admiration.” * * *
612. “Do your best all the time and think of your shortcomings, for you can not worship God as He really deserves.” * * *
613. “One who is made happy by a good deed and sad by a bad deed is a true believer.” * * *
614. “He does not belong to us one who does not call himself to account, that is, if he has done a good deed he should praise God and wish for further good deeds and if he has done something wrong he should ask for forgiveness.” * * *
615. “Let it be known to you O servant of God! How to cure self-admiration? * * *
616. “O Dawood! Thank Me. David said: O Lord! How can I thank you while thanks giving itself is one of Your blessings which needs thanks? He said: O Dawood! I am pleased to take this confession of yours as thanksgiving.” * * *
617. “Fasting is for My sake and I Myself will give its reward.” * * *
“I have prepared for My servants things no eyes have seen, no ears have heard and no mind imagined.” * * *
“So no soul knows what is hidden for them of that which will refresh the eyes; a reward for what they did.” * * *
“And whoever does good, whether male or female and he is a believer, these shall enter the garden in which they shall be given sustenance without measure.” (Verse 40 of the Quranic Chapter, Moamin) * * *
“Whoever says Sobhanallah (glory be to God) God, will plant a tree for him in paradise.” * * *
618. “Whoever takes his “self’ as enemy instead of people, God will keep him safe from the fright of the Day of Judgment.” * * *
619. “Anyone of you who during the night repents his wrongdoing and blames his “self” is better for him than beginning the day while he is happy with his deed.” * * *
620. “Praise is due to Allah who judges among people on whatever he wishes. Then he said: O Ma-aaz! I said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah and Master of the believers.” * * *
“O Ma-aaz! I said: Yes O Messenger of Allah! O leader of the good and prophet of mercy!” * * *
“I will give you a piece of news no prophet has given to his nation. If you memorize it, it will benefit you in your life and if you hear but do not memorize it, you will not have any excuse before God.” * * *
“Then he said: Before creation of heavens, God created seven angels appointing each of them in a heaven and made that heaven splendid with that glory. Then God appointed an angel as gate keeper to each of the gates of heavens. * * *
“He said: Then the next day while carrying good deeds the angels return and pass by the former angel, purify the deed and add to it till they reach the second heaven where the angel of that heaven will say: Stop here. Throw this deed to the face of its doer, for with this deed, he was following mean objectives in world. I am the angel of worldly affairs and will not let the deed of this person pass on to others from here.” * * *
“He said, The next stage angels, take up the deed of God’s servant from whose charity and prayer they are happy. But when they reach the third heaven, the angel will say: Throw this deed to the face of its doer. I am the angel recording arrogance. This person had good deeds but was arrogant to people. My Lord has ordered me to let his deed pass on to others from here.” * * *
“Then he said: The guardian angels took up the deed of God’s servant while it was shining like a star and his voice was up with glorification of God, fast, and Hajj pilgrimage. They were taking it up to the fourth heaven when an angel said: Stop here. Throw it to the face and belly of its doer. I am the angel recording self-admiration. He was self-conceited. He had good deeds but he was complacent. My Lord has ordered to stop his deed to pass on to others from here.” * * *
“Then he said: The next stage, the guardian angels take up man’s deed which like a bride is ready for wedding. When they reach the fifth heaven, the good deed is accompanied by Jihad, prayer and a sad voice like the moaning, of a camel and the light of the sun. But the angel will say: Stop here! I am the angel recording jealousy. Throw it to the face of its doer and put it on his shoulder. He was jealous of seekers of knowledge and the obedient to God. Whenever he saw someone was superior in devotion, he was jealous of him and he started doing it. Here that man’s deed is put on his shoulder while the deed curses him.” * * *
“Then he said: Once again the guardian angels take up man’s deeds such as prayer, alms, and Hajj to the sixth heaven but the angel will say: Stop here, I am the angel recording mercy. Throw this deed to the face of its doer and make him blind, for he had no mercy on any one. If anyone committed a wrongdoing or suffered a loss he would blame him. My Lord ordered to stop his deed from passing on from here.” * * *
He said: The guardian angels take up to heaven man’s deed which is accompanied by understanding, endeavor and piety while it has a sound like that of thunder and lightning. In addition, three thousand angels will accompany it. When they reach the angel in the seventh heaven he will say: Stop here. Throw this deed to the face of its doer. I am the angel in charge of veiling. I will conceal from Him any deed which is not for His sake. This person meant to obtain a high position with the chiefs and have reputation. My Lord has ordered me to stop him from passing on to others as long as his deed has not been refined for God.” * * *
“Then he said: This time, the guardian angels will take up man’s deeds for which man is happy. Deeds like prayer, alms, fast, Hajj, good temper, silence, and remembrance of God which are accompanied by the heavenly angels as well as the seven angels reap all the veils till they stand before God and they testify for him in practice and with Dua. But God will say: You are the guardians of the deeds of My servants but I am the guardian of what passes in his heart. He did not mean Me with his deeds. My curse be upon him.” * * *
“Follow your prophet in being certain about the unity of God.” * * *
“O Ma-aaz! If you have any shortcoming in your deed, stop talking about your brother in faith and carriers of the Holy Quran. Blame yourself for your wrongdoing not your brethren. Do not ever justify yourself by reproaching your brothers in faith. Do not overestimate yourself at the price of humiliating your brothers. Do not dissimulate. Let not your worldly desires interfere your affairs in the Hereafter. Watch your language when associating with people so as people will not keep aloof from you. Do not whisper in an assembly. Do not magnify yourself, for you will be deprived of the blessings. Do not reproach people, for the dogs of Hell will reproach you. God says: “By Nashetaat!” * * *
“Do you know who “Nashetaat” are? They are the dogs of Hell who bite flesh and bone.” * * *
“O Ma-aaz! This will be easy to one for whom God has made it easy.” |